Stop seeking validation from others. This type of validation is untrue and will not help you gain an authentic sense of worthiness. When we’re constantly focusing on finding validation through others, we stop putting our needs first; we lose sight of our true values and we lose that respect within ourselves and from others. 
You, and only you can build upon your self-worth. Seek validation within you so you can grow your confidence. Once you achieve this, you’ll never find yourself depending on others to boost your sense of self-worth. You become worthy because you KNOW you are worthy.

#rubyisms 💖

#selflove #selfworth #selfesteem #selflovetribe #selfconfidence #confidence #youareloved #youareworthy

Stop seeking validation from others. This type of validation is untrue and will not help you gain an authentic sense of worthiness. When we’re constantly focusing on finding validation through others, we stop putting our needs first; we lose sight of our true values and we lose that respect within ourselves and from others.
You, and only you can build upon your self-worth. Seek validation within you so you can grow your confidence. Once you achieve this, you’ll never find yourself depending on others to boost your sense of self-worth. You become worthy because you KNOW you are worthy.

#rubyisms 💖

#selflove #selfworth #selfesteem #selflovetribe #selfconfidence #confidence #youareloved #youareworthy

You won’t get over it, but I assure you… You will learn to move forward and you will rebuild your life. You WILL be whole again. 🙏❤️

#loss #life #love #loveyourlife #movingforward #movingon #bestrong #belove

You won’t get over it, but I assure you… You will learn to move forward and you will rebuild your life. You WILL be whole again. 🙏❤️

#loss #life #love #loveyourlife #movingforward #movingon #bestrong #belove

Kindness. Sprinkle that shit everywhere! 💖✨✨✨✨

#kindness #bekind #quotes #positivity

Kindness. Sprinkle that shit everywhere! 💖✨✨✨✨

#kindness #bekind #quotes #positivity

Stop assuming the Universe is against you. 
The Universe isn’t working against you… YOU are working against the Universe. You need to let go and allow yourself to flow with the universal energies around you. Stop creating friction. 
When you feel your ego creeping up, telling you things like “Why me?” or “Why do bad things always happen to me?”, repeat this affirmation to yourself:
“The Universe is on my side.” #rubyisms 💖✨

#loa #loveyourself #lawofattraction #selflove #quotes #manifest #visualize #universe #energy

Stop assuming the Universe is against you.
The Universe isn’t working against you… YOU are working against the Universe. You need to let go and allow yourself to flow with the universal energies around you. Stop creating friction.
When you feel your ego creeping up, telling you things like “Why me?” or “Why do bad things always happen to me?”, repeat this affirmation to yourself:
“The Universe is on my side.” #rubyisms 💖✨

#loa #loveyourself #lawofattraction #selflove #quotes #manifest #visualize #universe #energy

Woohoo! www.iamru.by is officially LIVE!! I’m so excited to share this with you. Take a peek through the site - I would love to hear your thoughts on it! ❤️🙏

Just finished working on my new website… It’s finally ready to launch! Hours of work, sweat, frustration, tears, and laughter paid off! Stay tuned… www.iamru.by goes live tomorrow!

Just finished working on my new website… It’s finally ready to launch! Hours of work, sweat, frustration, tears, and laughter paid off! Stay tuned… www.iamru.by goes live tomorrow!

02 days.
Manifesting my dream of becoming a Self-Love Coach… Yes, it’s happening ❤️🙏

#selflove #loveyourself #loa #lawofattraction

02 days.
Manifesting my dream of becoming a Self-Love Coach… Yes, it’s happening ❤️🙏

#selflove #loveyourself #loa #lawofattraction

A deep sense of love and belonging is an irreducible need of all people. We are biologically, cognitively, physically, and spiritually wired to love, to be loved, and to belong. When those needs are not met, we don’t function as we were meant to. We break. We fall apart. We numb. We ache. We hurt others. We get sick.

Brene Brown

Be mindful of your thoughts, for they have the power to change your energy and the energy surrounding you. You must think of these thoughts as requests; understand that every thought you have is sending an energetic message out to the Universe. When we think negatively, we attract more negativity into our lives. When we think positively, we attract more positivity into our lives. Whatever we think, becomes our reality. 
For example, if we think:
“I’ll never find love.” we begin to believe it and therefore live it. 
But if we consider our thoughts as requests, we can begin thinking more like this:
“I will find love.” Every thought you have is a request to the Universe and a message to yourself. You must think of your thoughts as requests.

What will you request today? 
#rubyisms 💖

#loa #loveyourself #lawofattraction #belove #bepositive #positivity #positivevibes

Be mindful of your thoughts, for they have the power to change your energy and the energy surrounding you. You must think of these thoughts as requests; understand that every thought you have is sending an energetic message out to the Universe. When we think negatively, we attract more negativity into our lives. When we think positively, we attract more positivity into our lives. Whatever we think, becomes our reality.
For example, if we think:
“I’ll never find love.” we begin to believe it and therefore live it.
But if we consider our thoughts as requests, we can begin thinking more like this:
“I will find love.” Every thought you have is a request to the Universe and a message to yourself. You must think of your thoughts as requests.

What will you request today?
#rubyisms 💖

#loa #loveyourself #lawofattraction #belove #bepositive #positivity #positivevibes

From a life of self-destruction, to a life of self-love. I made the transition in less than 2 years and have never experienced as much love and happiness in my life as I do now. My next chapter is dedicated to teaching self-love; I want to coach others so that they too can take back control of their lives and shift from a life of negativity, to a life of positivity. 

My new website launches Monday July 14th and I can’t wait to share it with you! 💖

From a life of self-destruction, to a life of self-love. I made the transition in less than 2 years and have never experienced as much love and happiness in my life as I do now. My next chapter is dedicated to teaching self-love; I want to coach others so that they too can take back control of their lives and shift from a life of negativity, to a life of positivity.

My new website launches Monday July 14th and I can’t wait to share it with you! 💖

It’s simple…
We are shaped by our life experiences. We are constantly growing, learning, and applying those lessons to our lives. But what happens when we regret our life experiences; when we feel guilty for our scars and wounds? We become trapped in our past and prevent ourselves from learning valuable lessons that those painful experiences offered. These lessons are a gift and one that we must accept if we want to move forward. 
Stop regretting your past…
Stop feeling guilty for things you can’t change…
What happened, happened. Now it’s up to you to find the lessons and apply them to your life. It’s these lessons that shape us to become who we are, and in order to love who we are, we must also appreciate every moment that lead us to where we stand today. 
Love your scars and be grateful for your wounds for they’re a part of you, and in order to love yourself fully, you must love every single part of you. 
#rubyisms 💜

#selflove #selfworth #selfesteem #selflovetribe #selflovejourney #belove #loveyourself #loveyourwounds #grateful #gratitude #youareworthy

It’s simple…
We are shaped by our life experiences. We are constantly growing, learning, and applying those lessons to our lives. But what happens when we regret our life experiences; when we feel guilty for our scars and wounds? We become trapped in our past and prevent ourselves from learning valuable lessons that those painful experiences offered. These lessons are a gift and one that we must accept if we want to move forward.
Stop regretting your past…
Stop feeling guilty for things you can’t change…
What happened, happened. Now it’s up to you to find the lessons and apply them to your life. It’s these lessons that shape us to become who we are, and in order to love who we are, we must also appreciate every moment that lead us to where we stand today.
Love your scars and be grateful for your wounds for they’re a part of you, and in order to love yourself fully, you must love every single part of you.
#rubyisms 💜

#selflove #selfworth #selfesteem #selflovetribe #selflovejourney #belove #loveyourself #loveyourwounds #grateful #gratitude #youareworthy

This says it all… Kindness isn’t a personality trait… it isn’t a “favour” to others… and it isn’t about revenge. The message that says “Kill people with kindness” has got it all wrong. THAT is a truly unauthentic way of living. 
Give without hesitation - Stop with your expectations.
Lose without regret - Understand what you do and do not need in your life.
Acquire without meanness - If you have a truly loving and compassionate heart, you will not ever feel the need to be mean (this includes the passive-aggressiveness often seen in social media). So what is kindness all about? Kindness is a way of being. It’s about living life through your heart, without jealousy, envy, or hate. It’s about being kind because you are kind. It’s as simple as that. It’s an authentic representation of the love and compassion you hold within. 
As with many other things… Kindness starts within you. <3

#kindness #bekind #selflove #quotes

This says it all… Kindness isn’t a personality trait… it isn’t a “favour” to others… and it isn’t about revenge. The message that says “Kill people with kindness” has got it all wrong. THAT is a truly unauthentic way of living.
Give without hesitation - Stop with your expectations.
Lose without regret - Understand what you do and do not need in your life.
Acquire without meanness - If you have a truly loving and compassionate heart, you will not ever feel the need to be mean (this includes the passive-aggressiveness often seen in social media). So what is kindness all about? Kindness is a way of being. It’s about living life through your heart, without jealousy, envy, or hate. It’s about being kind because you are kind. It’s as simple as that. It’s an authentic representation of the love and compassion you hold within.
As with many other things… Kindness starts within you. <3

#kindness #bekind #selflove #quotes

Every single moment offers us opportunities, but it&#8217;s up to us to seize them. When we close our minds to the possibility of change, we don&#8217;t see the opportunities that are laid out in front of us. It&#8217;s the same if we don&#8217;t truly believe things can change&#8230; that belief system clouds our minds from seeing the abundance of opportunities that are available to us.

Open your hearts and expand your minds to all that the Universe has to offer. State your intentions and know that all the things you truly desire, can and will be yours&#8230; you  just need to put that energy out into the Universe.

We live in a field of infinite possibilities, and those possibilities are all within your reach&#8230; you just have to reach for them. 
#rubyisms 💖
#loa #lawofattraction #selflove #universe #manifest #manifestyourdreams #dreams #visualize

Every single moment offers us opportunities, but it’s up to us to seize them. When we close our minds to the possibility of change, we don’t see the opportunities that are laid out in front of us. It’s the same if we don’t truly believe things can change… that belief system clouds our minds from seeing the abundance of opportunities that are available to us.

Open your hearts and expand your minds to all that the Universe has to offer. State your intentions and know that all the things you truly desire, can and will be yours… you just need to put that energy out into the Universe.

We live in a field of infinite possibilities, and those possibilities are all within your reach… you just have to reach for them.
#rubyisms 💖
#loa #lawofattraction #selflove #universe #manifest #manifestyourdreams #dreams #visualize

Drown Your Ego With Love | #rubyisms

We often talk about ego, but what exactly is it? 
The ego is an identity of our own construction; an identity which is false. Our ego is built by all the beliefs we have about ourselves, including our subconscious beliefs. It is the voice inside us that says:

"I’m not smart enough."
"I’m better than they are."
"I’m ugly."
"I’m a selfish person."
"Nobody likes me."
"I’m not skinny enough."

Simply put… The ego tells us LIES.
Our ego expands with all the thoughts and beliefs that others make of us, as well as our own thoughts and beliefs about ourselves. Some of these beliefs were engraved in us when we were kids, and others beliefs are embedded in us as we grow older. This is the ego; a collection of limiting ideas that we believe define who we are as individuals. The ego causes emotional trauma within and around us. Have you ever wondered “Why did I react that way?” or “I can’t believe I said that!”? That’s due to a flare up of your ego. Jealousy, envy, hate… those are all ego-based emotions. 

So how do we rid ourselves of our ego so we can let go of our limiting beliefs? 
First, you must understand that the ego wasn’t built overnight; it’s been built over your lifetime. It has deep roots and can be quite difficult to identify. However, there is something that can fight your ego… and that is love. 

Anytime you hear the voice of your ego, drown it with love. Respond to ego with a loving voice:
Voice of EGO: “Nobody will ever love me.”
Voice of LOVE: “I deserve true, authentic love.”
Continue to do this with every limiting thought that comes from your ego. It may seem difficult at first because we’ve been living within these limiting beliefs for so long… but it isn’t impossible. You just have to work at it and make it a habit. Replace your limiting beliefs with thoughts of love and empowerment by drowning your ego with love.


"I love you because the entire Universe conspired to help me find you."
- Paulo Coelho

"I love you because the entire Universe conspired to help me find you."
- Paulo Coelho